You have seven seconds to make a first impression. Here’s how you can make it a good one.

Facial expression, gestures, attitude, your sense of humor, the way you walk, what you say and how — all form a composite picture of you.

Think Before You Speak.

Plan a few minutes first what you’re going to say.
Put yourself in the other person’s shoes — talk in terms that he or she can relate to.

Be aware of other people’s sensitivities.
Ask yourself if what you want to say will improve a situation or make it worse.
Be honest with them and admit when you don’t know something.
Your attitude is your altitude.

Speak Clearly.

People will likely to take what you say seriously if you speak clearly and distinctly.
Listen to how fast you talk.
“Speed talkers” often communicate little and may appear nervous.
Meet someone for the first time: adjust your rate of talking to the speed of the person you’re with.

Smile Sincerely.

A smile can do wonders if it’s the right kind of smile.
The best smile come from the inside – you smile because you are happy to meet someone, because you like that person and are happy to be with him or her.
Put on genuine smile and you will certainly make people around you feel good.

Learn to Laugh.

Learn to find humor in such situations. Laughter is a great way to take the sting out of almost anything.
Likable people laugh easily, especially at the situation they get themselves into.

Move with Confidence.

The way you move has a lot to do with the kind of impression you give others.
Make your movement count. Sit and walk uprightly, but not rigidly.
When you walk up to a group of people, look up and smile as you greet them. Use gestures only if they help better express your thoughts.

Be Responsive.

Adjust your mood accordingly. Try to be aware of the feelings of others.
Show some concern and understanding when it’s needed.
If the person you’re with is happy about something, be happy with him or her.

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Listen Actively.

You will have a better chance of making a good impression if you spend more time listening and less time talking.
Another person is speaking: give full attention.
Don’t daydream.
Nod and show interest with your eyes and face.
Make pertinent comments and ask questions to let the speaker know you are listening.
Let him or her complete the sentences.

Don’t pretend, just be yourself. Honesty is the best policy.

Don’t Worry.

If you are genuinely concerned about other people, it will be obvious by your actions, attitude, the tune of your voice and your facial expression. If your heart is in the right place, others will like you, and you will make a good impression.

Adapted and Condensed from Youth Magazine.